The transition from school to summer can be a big one, not just for kids, but for parents and guardians, too. We all know that young people thrive with routines and clear expectations, and that’s why summer preparation is key. Here are five simple ways to set your family up for success this June.
Let Them Be Bored
Letting your children get bored may seem simple, but in reality, it’s a practice in patience for parents and guardians. It can be tricky to listen to constant complaints of “I’m bored” at the onset of the summer. However, the boredom will benefit the whole family in the long term. Once they find an activity they enjoy (which can take children up to an hour to discover), open-ended free play can lead to longer play time, more fulfillment, and meet developmental needs. Cutting back on providing entertainment lowers pressure on parents to constantly plan and rush around.
Set Expectations Early
Whether it’s setting times for snacks, screens, or outdoor activities, communicating clear expectations minimizes the number of times you’ll be asked for another pack of fruit snacks or a few more minutes of Minecraft. Creating routines and making daily or weekly visual schedules can help children answer their own questions. Weekly activities, like swimming lessons, beach time, or regular play dates, lightly mimic the structure of school schedules and can be a valuable tool.
Plan Time Outside Every Day
From fresh air to sensory input, from physical activity to mental well-being, we’re all aware of the benefits of getting outside. Planning that time around your family’s rhythm can be an important way to make sure their needs are met (and that kids are tired at bedtime). If it’s going to be a very hot day, get out first thing in the morning. If it’s going to rain, plan your mud pie-making and puddle stomping before regular shower time. If your children burst with energy after dinner, plan evening walks. Remember: Getting outside doesn’t have to be complicated. A simple stroll around the neighborhood can do wonders.
Familiarize Your Children With Their Summer Camp
If you’re sending your child to summer camp, spend some time familiarizing (or re-familiarizing) them with their camp. Visit your camp’s resource page, website, or social media channels so your camper can visualize the space, activities, and staff. If the camp is nearby and you can visit it together, even better.
Slow Down
Many children are overscheduled, and it’s important for their well-being that families prioritize rest during school breaks. Whether children are home, on vacation, at camp, or working a summer job, rest is a productive part of the day and can prevent meltdowns. This might mean scheduled quiet time, family movie nights, reading time, or all of the above. Whatever rest looks like to your family, it should receive equal billing to the adventures you plan throughout the summer.
Summer doesn’t have to be chaotic. With thoughtful planning and creativity, you can create a rhythm that works for everyone—and leave space for spontaneity and joy.
